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HELLO Jacques, you have new girlfriend now, right? Could you talk something about your love with me when you are free?
bo7172008@yahoo.cn: love story
jpsoleilsdautomnejp: Hello, dear Bo. I hope you had a nice birthday anniversary.
jpsoleilsdautomnejp: Sure we can discuss any topic at a given time. Why not write an email on your question?
jpsoleilsdautomnejp: because for now I am not sure when I will be willing to chat. Mood, see?, other things to do, so many qustions...
jpsoleilsdautomnejp: But I have not a new girlfriend. In fact maybe I do not want any girlfriend anymore. I must accept to go beyond that.
jpsoleilsdautomnejp: I realized that probably this whole enterprise of searching for love in the Chinese side was a mistake.
jpsoleilsdautomnejp: Chinese are not really concerned about others than them. They may like to dream sometimes but bottom line they seek their own advantage.
jpsoleilsdautomnejp: Romantism is just a new foreing territory to explore to profit, not a real Chinese endavour.
jpsoleilsdautomnejp: For me, but with less urgency, I continue to study chinese people as an other version of mankind.
jpsoleilsdautomnejp: Chinese do not believe in the existence of universal values. This is a real philosophical challenging of Western beliefs.
jpsoleilsdautomnejp: My attitude from now on towards your people is more of a cold thinker and inquiring scientist, than a warm and loving fool.
jpsoleilsdautomnejp: Chinese are only concerned about themselves. Others become interesting to them only when they can become useful to them.
jpsoleilsdautomnejp: I am fed up with love for Chinese women. I think I shouldn't need that no more.
jpsoleilsdautomnejp: It is only an accident we live on the same planet. China is a world in itself.
jpsoleilsdautomnejp: We all must learn to be self sufficient. I would prefer to do this with less lies.

bo7172008@yahoo.cn (2011-07-18 08:34:50): Thank you for my birthday greetings.
bo7172008@yahoo.cn (2011-07-18 08:39:36): I saw the offline messages you left. your attitude seemed have changed a lot towards mixed-marriage with Chinese woman. and also towards Chinese nation? but you spoke your true feeling, so i appreciate. I think we still can chat many topics as before, as good friends, right?
bo7172008@yahoo.cn (2011-07-18 08:42:43): yes, we are all longly human beings in this planet, so we all must learn to be self sufficient.
bo7172008@yahoo.cn (2011-07-18 08:44:19): i said your new girlfriend, that was because i saw your new updated blog, you mentioned Ming in your blog, so i said so.
bo7172008@yahoo.cn (2011-07-18 08:46:49): Anyway, how about this Ming? Did you have good conversations?
bo7172008@yahoo.cn (2011-07-18 08:51:00): i am not feeling well the few days. being not in peaceful mind, and as you said, the mood...
jpsoleilsdautomnejp (2011-07-18 11:08:18): Dear, peaceful and sweet Bo... I am sorry to have hurt your feelings that way. expressing my thinking and resentment I was careless. this is not refined, civilized behavior.
jpsoleilsdautomnejp (2011-07-18 11:09:50): This "Ming", in fact, is still the same Ling, but she asked me to hide traces from our involvment on the net. Her mate is policeman, so inquiries could be easy to find unwanted interactions... see ?
jpsoleilsdautomnejp (2011-07-18 11:11:00): Chinese think their culture is superior to all others... and maybe they are right !Anyway, for them it is not a problem at all.
jpsoleilsdautomnejp (2011-07-18 11:11:36): For me, as a Western thinker, yes, it is a problem, and even a huge challenge ! see?
jpsoleilsdautomnejp (2011-07-18 11:14:55): So, before thinking about marrying thousands of Chinese women, we, gentlemen, should ought to understand better this Chinese culture. So, for now, I would change my position to a "moratorium" for such hasty attempts of interbreeding...
jpsoleilsdautomnejp (2011-07-18 11:16:26): Yes, dear, of course we can remain friends. And I will be availaible for you, if and when you care... do not take me lightly, and do not try to perform other tasks when you are with me. (This I am angry for).
jpsoleilsdautomnejp (2011-07-18 11:17:56): Okay then, bye for now. I hope you can take care of yourself.